Workshop: Your romantic and partner relationships
What’s happening?
Are you an adult who has an autistic brother/sister? (Or another neurodiversity or lifelong disability from birth?)
Being a sibling can impact our romantic and partner relationships as an adult. We might find it logistically difficult to meet a partner due to caring responsibilities or our living situation. Our childhood experiences (such as always coming second) might transfer over into our partner relationships as we struggle to advocate for our own needs. Our strengths can come into their own in relationships, as we might be great communicators or very empathic people because of the experiences we’ve had too.
Whether you’re looking for advice on dating as a sibling or tips for navigating long-term partnerships, this workshop will open up those conversations and connect you with others in a similar situation.
Siblings of all gender identities, sexual preferences and relationship preferences are welcome at this session (For example – Ace; Aromantic; Asexual; Bi; Cis; Gay; Lesbian; Monogamous; Non-binary; Pan; Polyamorous; Queer; Questioning; Straight; Trans – and more).
When and where?
Workshop: Your romantic and partner relationships
Monday 10th February, 7pm – 8.30pm
Online via Zoom
Tickets £5
If you’re in need of a free place, just let us know in confidence by emailing [email protected] – we do not want payment to be a barrier for siblings wishing to attend.
Why attend?
At this friendly, informal and interactive session you will:
- Understand more about the specific challenges siblings face in their romantic and partner relationships
- Recognise the strengths that siblings bring to their relationships and how these can be utilised
- Gain practical tips and insights for navigating your sibling situation going forward
This is a confidential, sibling-only environment – no recording or screenshots, no partners or professionals.
Who can attend?
To join the sessions you must:
- Be aged 18 or over
- Currently live in the UK
- Have a brother or sister who is autistic (or who has another neurodiversity or lifelong disability from birth)
This session is just for siblings (not for partners).
Book your place
Frequently asked questions
What's the confident caring programme?
Our Confident Caring programme is a series of online events, bringing together siblings who have an autistic brother or sister. It is gratefully supported by the Boshier Grant Scheme.
We’re also very appreciative of funding from the National Lottery Community Fund (Awards for All) to help towards the cost of providing spaces for siblings whose brother or sister has a diagnosis that isn’t autism.
What's the cost?
It’s just £5 to attend.
- This is a fraction of the actual cost of your place. We are fortunate to be able to offer this very low ticket cost to siblings, thanks to funding from the Boshier Grant Scheme and the National Lottery Community Fund (Awards for All)
- The fee is non-refundable under any circumstances, because of the cost to the charity of processing this, unless the event has to be cancelled by us due to reasons beyond our control
- If you’re able to, please consider making an additional donation to cover extra places for siblings in financial need
- If you’re in need of a free place, just let us know in confidence by emailing [email protected] – we do not want payment to be a barrier for siblings wishing to attend
What isn't included?
- Please note that this is a general group session and that one-to-one support cannot be provided for individual personal issues
- This session will not be recorded. This is so that siblings can feel comfortable having their video cameras on and asking questions throughout
- Whilst you’ll be in great company and will have the chance to say hello to others, the focus of the session isn’t on socialising. If you’re looking for this, join a support group instead.
I'm not a carer, can I still come along?
Yes. These sessions are for siblings who may have been a carer in the past, are currently carers or may be a carer in the future.
I'm not a sibling. Can I attend?
No, these sessions are a confidential sibling-only environment. We are only funded to support siblings and cannot accept bookings from partners, cousins, friends, parents, professionals, researchers or anyone else who hasn’t grown up with a disabled or neurodivergent brother/sister.
I'm interested in this topic but I can't make the date
We don’t take recordings of our sessions, so that siblings feel safe and relaxed to have their cameras on and participate throughout. After the session, we will upload a one-page guide with a summary of the best hints and tips that were shared – come back to our website to download it. Also, make sure you’re signed up to our mailing list to hear about future sessions.
Take a look at these resources too:
- Sibs eBook ‘Self-care for siblings’ – chapter on ‘Your relationships’
- Sibs advice: How to find a counsellor
- Rachael – “Having a partner who accepted my family and all that it entails was a huge priority for me”
- Lisa – “We know neither of us is a mind-reader, so the easiest way to work on things is to speak to each other about how we’re feeling.”
- Relate – relationship information, advice and counselling
To meet other siblings who have a neurodiverse and/or disabled brother/sister:
I'm interested in other information sessions in the Confident Caring programme
Click here to see our other information sessions in the Confident Caring programme.
I've got more questions...
We’d love to hear from you – please email [email protected]